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Are you happy? Or just complacent?

Last Updated: March 12, 2018

Are you happy or just complacent?

2017 was a major year for me. It was the year when I took a hard look at my life and asked the question: Am I happy? Or am I just complacent? I started taking a Mindfulness-based Stress Relief course in late January of 2017 and that began the introspection into what happiness means to me. As I … [Read more...]

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8 Gifts Your Loved One With Chronic Illness Really Wants

Last Updated: November 27, 2017

8 gifts people with chronic illness really want

8 Gifts Your Loved One with Chronic Illness Really Wants This time of year we are all thinking about what those around us want, but we should be thinking about it all year around. I've posted my annual gift guide, a list of items you can buy (or make) for your loved one that they will surely … [Read more...]

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How to keep from growing bitter when you aren’t getting better

Last Updated: September 11, 2017

How to avoid growing bitter when you aren't getting better

How to Keep from Growing Bitter When You Aren't Getting Better guest post by Angie Glaser On August 21, 2017, the moon, Earth, and sun lined up perfectly causing the morning sky to darken in a solar eclipse. Morning darkness is eerie. Everything is where it should be -  except the … [Read more...]

4 Comments Filed Under: Coping, Extra Spoons Tagged With: acceptance, anxiety, chronic illness, mental health

Living the Whole Health Life

Last Updated: February 17, 2017

I was given a copy of The Whole Health Life by the author, Shannon Harvey because she and her husband felt that it aligned with the info that I share here on my blog. I couldn't agree more. After they told me about the book I really couldn't wait to read it, and as I started reading it I couldn't … [Read more...]

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How Chronic Pain Affects Sex in New Relationships

Last Updated: October 21, 2016

chronic illness affects sex in new relationships

Chronic illness affects sex in relationships. The sad truth of the matter is that sexual dysfunction is almost the norm for those of us with Fibromyalgia, and for many other chronic illnesses. There are a lot of differences, though, between chronic pain hitting existing established relationships and … [Read more...]

2 Comments Filed Under: Coping, Medical Studies, relationships Tagged With: acceptance, anxiety, communication, sex

Why is it So Hard to Ask For Help?

Last Updated: August 22, 2016

Why is it so difficult to ask for help?

Why is it So Hard to Ask For Help? Reading the book, The Art of Asking by Amanda Palmer, really made me question why I  struggle so much to ask for help when I need it. This book really changed my perspective on the whole concept of asking for help  and I believe it's helped me see … [Read more...]

1 Comment Filed Under: Coping, Extra Spoons, inspiration, relationships Tagged With: acceptance, asking for help, support

5 Things I’ve learned about tough times

Last Updated: August 8, 2016

Tough times never last but tough people do.

I've been struggling a lot lately. It's not something I like to admit, I want to be strong and pretend everything is OK. But, the truth is that I've had a lot more bad days lately. It seems like about every third day I barely manage an hours worth of work before I'm just mentally and/or physically … [Read more...]

2 Comments Filed Under: Coping, Extra Spoons, My Life Tagged With: acceptance

The Importance of Social Support

Last Updated: August 5, 2016

If you love someone enough, they'll give you everything. -Amanda Palmer

Social support makes a huge difference in how we manage our illness. Too often, though, we push our support away and try to do it all on our own. The struggle is that our illness has taken so much of our independence away that we want to do anything we can on our own, often to our own detriment. As … [Read more...]

4 Comments Filed Under: Extra Spoons, friendship, relationships Tagged With: acceptance, asking for help, support

6 Ways to Enjoy Your Life with Migraine

Last Updated: August 1, 2016

How to enjoy life despite migraines

6 Ways to Enjoy Your Life with Migraine -guest post by Samantha Wilson   Do you feel that migraines are ruining your life? They have almost ruined mine. But I accepted the challenge and learned to enjoy my life. Most information on migraines discuss how to deal with one when it … [Read more...]

Leave a Comment Filed Under: Coping, Extra Spoons, migraine, Tips and Tricks Tagged With: acceptance, chronic pain, meditation

Rough Times Will Come

Last Updated: June 20, 2016

Whatever will be, will be... the future's not ours to see.

2016 was a bit of a roller coaster for me. I finished school in December of 2015 and that left me a little unclear as to what I would do next. So, I launched a new business helping other chronic illness bloggers. Just when things started to be getting into a nice groove and business began picking … [Read more...]

3 Comments Filed Under: Coping, inspiration Tagged With: acceptance, decreasing stress

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About Julie

Spoonie. Fibro Warrior. E-health advocate.

Julie Ryan was diagnosed with fibromyalgia in 2010 and endometriosis in 2012. She's lived with chronic migraine most of her life. In 2019 she was diagnosed with inter-cranial hypertension.

Julie has a degree in Psychology, and works as a freelance writer and marketer. Freelance work allows her to work when she can and not be tied to a desk or a schedule. Julie believes in living an inspired life despite chronic illness.

"I have chronic illness, it doesn't have me."

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Blog title inspired by The Spoon Theory, by Christine Miserandino, an excellent explanation of what it's like to live with invisible illness. Read More…

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I am not a doctor. I do not claim to be a doctor. I do not play a doctor on TV or the internet. I simply share my experiences and what has worked for me. We are all different and before you try any new treatment, exercise, supplement, etc you should talk with your doctor (the real one, not the one on TV).

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