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20 Great Gift Ideas for Those with Chronic Illness

Last Updated: October 21, 2019

As we head into the holiday season, it can be a struggle to know just what to get those you care about. Finding gift ideas for those with chronic illness can especially be a struggle. Below are 21 gift ideas specifically for those living with chronic illness.  Coupon Book Coupon … [Read more...]

2 Comments Filed Under: Coping, friendship, relationships Tagged With: gifts, holidays

5 Ways to Show Your love, even when you feel like crap.

Last Updated: July 1, 2019

5 ways to show your love even when you feel like crap

When we aren't feeling well it's all too easy to take it out on those closest to us. We can let the stress get the best of us and that often leads to lashing out. We can't take the anger and frustration out on the illness that causes these emotions, so we take them out on the people around us. Most … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Coping, Fibro and Marriage, relationships Tagged With: asking for help, communication

How musician Dan Reynolds deals with a Monster Pain in the AS

Last Updated: June 3, 2019

How Dan Reynolds deals with a Monster Pain in the AS (with image of Dan Reynolds and pain monster) on Counting My Spoons

Celebrities are just like us is a truth that we often forget… and sometimes they do as well, but not Dan Reynolds, lead singer for Imagine Dragons. Dan hasn’t forgotten the struggles that he’s gone through to get where he is, because in many ways they aren’t over. It’s difficult for me to think of … [Read more...]

2 Comments Filed Under: Coping, inspiration, relationships Tagged With: acceptance, chronic pain, diet

Handling the daily challenges of being a parent with chronic illness

Last Updated: September 24, 2018

The daily challenges of being a parent with chronic illness   guest post by Emma England of NotJustTired.com   Being a parent is wonderfully rewarding, and something I feel it to be a real privilege.   However, parenting certainly comes with its fair share of … [Read more...]

Leave a Comment Filed Under: Coping, relationships Tagged With: acceptance, asking for help, chronic fatigue, chronic illness, chronic pain, family, parenting, support

Fibromyalgia and sexual dysfunction

Last Updated: August 24, 2018

fibromyalgia and sexual dysfunction - examining the problems, potential causes, and solutions

Sexual dysfunction, including pain during and after sex, vaginal dryness, inability to achieve or maintain arousal, and inability to orgasm, is common among women with fibromyalgia. More than 85% of women with fibromyalgia report one or more issues relating to sexual dysfunction (while only about … [Read more...]

3 Comments Filed Under: endometriosis, Fibro and Marriage, Fibromyalgia, Medical Studies, relationships Tagged With: chronic pain, pelvic pain, sex

The Impact of Chronic Illness on Marriage

Last Updated: August 16, 2018

The impact of chronic illness on marriage

Unless you were already sick before you met your partner, it's highly likely that your relationship took a drastic change when you became ill. Perhaps you had a great sex life, you went out often and did lots of things together, you traveled, you enjoyed life. I know that's how it was with my … [Read more...]

30 Comments Filed Under: Close to My Heart, Fibro and Marriage, relationships Tagged With: chronic illness, chronic pain, communication, personality, sex, support

Four Things About Chronic Illness My Family Needed To Know

Last Updated: July 30, 2018

four things about living with chronic illness that my family needs to know

Four Things About Chronic Illness My Family Needed To Know guest post by Anita Wilson I am not the only one suffering from migraine. My family also suffers with me. In addition to episodic migraines,  I have significant issues with balance, and I have had many traumatic falls and injuries. … [Read more...]

2 Comments Filed Under: Coping, Fibro and Marriage, migraine, relationships Tagged With: asking for help, family

Life in the Slow Lane: From life in the fast lane to life with chronic illness

Last Updated: July 9, 2018

What to do when chronic illness takes you from life in the fast lane to life in the slow lane

  Life in the Slow Lane: From life in the fast lane to life with chronic illness guest post by Samantha Taylor of Focus on the things you CAN do There are a lot of people in this world that I like to call ‘Doers’. The people who are always on the go, say ‘Yes’ to most things asked of … [Read more...]

Leave a Comment Filed Under: Coping, inspiration, relationships, Tips and Tricks Tagged With: acceptance, chronic fatigue, chronic illness, chronic pain, money, pacing, travel

The Importance of Chronic Illness Support Groups

Last Updated: March 5, 2018

Benefits of support groups for fibromyalgia

The Importance of Support Groups for Chronic Illness It's so important for us to have strong social support, but too often that may not be available from our immediate family or friends. The importance of support groups for those of us living with chronic conditions of any kind can not be … [Read more...]

Leave a Comment Filed Under: Coping, Fibromyalgia, relationships Tagged With: chronic illness, personality, support

There’s No App for Happiness

Last Updated: December 18, 2017

I was unhappy. I spent a lot of the last several years unhappy and didn't even realize it. I often blamed my unhappiness on my health. I often avoided life because of my unhappiness and I'm sure that my unhappiness seeped into my relationships with others, causing some to avoid me. Who … [Read more...]

Leave a Comment Filed Under: Close to My Heart, Extra Spoons, relationships Tagged With: decreasing stress, happiness

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About Julie

Spoonie. Fibro Warrior. E-health advocate.

Julie Ryan was diagnosed with fibromyalgia in 2010 and endometriosis in 2012. She's lived with chronic migraine most of her life. In 2019 she was diagnosed with inter-cranial hypertension.

Julie has a degree in Psychology, and works as a freelance writer and marketer. Freelance work allows her to work when she can and not be tied to a desk or a schedule. Julie believes in living an inspired life despite chronic illness.

"I have chronic illness, it doesn't have me."

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Blog title inspired by The Spoon Theory, by Christine Miserandino, an excellent explanation of what it's like to live with invisible illness. Read More…

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I am not a doctor. I do not claim to be a doctor. I do not play a doctor on TV or the internet. I simply share my experiences and what has worked for me. We are all different and before you try any new treatment, exercise, supplement, etc you should talk with your doctor (the real one, not the one on TV).

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