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8 Gifts Your Loved One With Chronic Illness Really Wants

Last Updated: November 27, 2017

8 gifts people with chronic illness really want

8 Gifts Your Loved One with Chronic Illness Really Wants This time of year we are all thinking about what those around us want, but we should be thinking about it all year around. I've posted my annual gift guide, a list of items you can buy (or make) for your loved one that they will surely … [Read more...]

Leave a Comment Filed Under: Fibro and Marriage, friendship, relationships, Tips and Tricks Tagged With: acceptance, chronic illness, gifts

Surviving the Holidays with Chronic Illness

Last Updated: November 13, 2017

Surviving the Holidays with Chronic Illness

Surviving the Holidays with Chronic Illness The holidays are stressful for everyone, and stress results in fatigue, especially for those of us with Fibromyalgia, Chronic Fatigue Syndrome (CFS/ME), or Lupus. Instead of enjoying the holidays we end up dreading worrying about all the things that … [Read more...]

Leave a Comment Filed Under: Coping, relationships, Tips and Tricks Tagged With: chronic illness, family, gifts, holidays, travel

4 Ways I’ve stopped giving away my energy

Last Updated: July 24, 2017

Why are you giving away your energy?

Energy - that thing that those of us with chronic illness fight to have enough of. Yet, I've found lately that I have more and more of it. Why? Because I've stopped giving away so much energy for no return. How have I gotten my energy back? It's not been easy, and it's a struggle, but the … [Read more...]

2 Comments Filed Under: Coping, Extra Spoons, relationships Tagged With: asking for help, chronic fatigue, energy, pacing, support

The Struggles of Being a Mom with Chronic Pain

Last Updated: July 10, 2017

The struggles of being a mom with chronic illness

The Struggles of Being a Mom with Chronic Pain Guest post by Andrea Wool of AutoImmuneStrong.com “Mommy- can you play tag with me?”“No, sweetie- I am so sorry, but my body really hurts today and I feel so tired.” “Mommy- can you play a game with me?”“In a minute, sweetie, Mommy really needs a … [Read more...]

Leave a Comment Filed Under: Coping, relationships Tagged With: chronic fatigue, chronic illness, chronic pain, communication, parenting

Good Advice NOT to Take if You’re Tackling Chronic Illness

Last Updated: May 22, 2017

Advice not to take when you live with chronic illness

Don’t take this advice if you’re dealing with chronic pain  guest post by Jackie Walters of Hyper-Tidy.com Getting diagnosed with a condition that causes chronic pain can be overwhelming. Soon, you’re flooded with advice from do-gooders who might be passing on outdated or wrong … [Read more...]

Leave a Comment Filed Under: Coping, relationships, Tips and Tricks Tagged With: chronic fatigue, chronic illness, chronic pain

10 Things You Should Know About Fibromyalgia

Last Updated: May 12, 2017

Fibromyalgia: 10 things you should know

10 Things You Should Know About Fibromyalgia   1 . Fibromyalgia is Real   Thankfully, there is a lot less disbelief in fibromyalgia now than there was a decade or two ago (or even 6 or 7 years ago). Unfortunately, there are still those (including doctors) who don't believe … [Read more...]

4 Comments Filed Under: Fibromyalgia, relationships, Symptoms Tagged With: chronic fatigue, chronic pain, insomnia

4 Challenges of Being an Introvert with Chronic Illness

Last Updated: May 8, 2017

The challenges of being an introvert with chronic illness

4 Challenges of Being an Introvert with Chronic Illness Guest post by Kami Lingren Navigating the changes that have come with a not-so-normal immune system have been, well, interesting. And throwing in my introverted personality? Now, that’s come with it's own set of "fun". Ahem, like every … [Read more...]

5 Comments Filed Under: Coping, Extra Spoons, relationships Tagged With: anxiety, personality

When You are Jealous of Your Healthy Spouse

Last Updated: April 21, 2017

What to do when you're jealous of your healthy spouse

Jealous of your healthy spouse? Guest post from Kim at GraceisSufficient.com   Jealousy is a major factor in the break-up of many couples - whether or not one has a chronic illness. Add the difficulty brought on by medical issues and the bond is truly going to be tested. Therefore, it's … [Read more...]

1 Comment Filed Under: Fibro and Marriage Tagged With: jealousy

When Your Partner is Struggling with Chronic Illness and Pushing You Away

Last Updated: April 17, 2017

What to do when partner is struggling with chronic illness and pushing you away

The below came from an email sent to me by a reader. After I answered his email I realized that he's so not alone and that my response might be helpful for many other partner's of those with chronic illness, so I asked his permission to share his question. "My wife suffers from chronic illness. … [Read more...]

11 Comments Filed Under: Close to My Heart, Coping, Fibro and Marriage, Fibromyalgia, relationships Tagged With: communication, sex

3 Things to Remember When Dealing with Toxic People

Last Updated: February 27, 2017

3 things to remember when dealing with toxic people

Toxic people are just a matter of life. No matter how hard we try to avoid them we often find ourselves surrounded by people who just suck the life out of us. These are often people who are extremely self-centered, never allowing others a word. Sometimes the toxic people in our lives are family … [Read more...]

Leave a Comment Filed Under: Coping, friendship, relationships Tagged With: communication

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About Julie

Spoonie. Fibro Warrior. E-health advocate.

Julie Ryan was diagnosed with fibromyalgia in 2010 and endometriosis in 2012. She's lived with chronic migraine most of her life. In 2019 she was diagnosed with inter-cranial hypertension.

Julie has a degree in Psychology, and works as a freelance writer and marketer. Freelance work allows her to work when she can and not be tied to a desk or a schedule. Julie believes in living an inspired life despite chronic illness.

"I have chronic illness, it doesn't have me."

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Blog title inspired by The Spoon Theory, by Christine Miserandino, an excellent explanation of what it's like to live with invisible illness. Read More…

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I am not a doctor. I do not claim to be a doctor. I do not play a doctor on TV or the internet. I simply share my experiences and what has worked for me. We are all different and before you try any new treatment, exercise, supplement, etc you should talk with your doctor (the real one, not the one on TV).

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