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5 Tips to Better Living with Chronic Illness

Last Updated: April 12, 2021

5 tips for better living with fibromyalgia

Chronic illness sucks, and more often than not there is little we can do to make our lives better. All we have are the small things, a comfy blanket, warm slippers, Netflix. But, the reality is that there are some big things that we can do (often) to help improve our lives both in the short-term and … [Read more...]

2 Comments Filed Under: Coping, Extra Spoons Tagged With: acceptance, forgiveness

Fibromyalgia and the Importance of Forgiveness

Last Updated: February 19, 2021

Fibromyalgia and the importance of forgiveness

Fibromyalgia and Forgiveness You may not think that forgiveness (or holding a grudge) would play a role in fibromyalgia, but as with all negative emotions it can play a huge role in the symptoms you experience. Holding a grudge is the opposite of forgiveness. Along with that grudge comes the … [Read more...]

3 Comments Filed Under: Coping, Extra Spoons, Fibro and Marriage, Fibromyalgia, Medical Studies, relationships Tagged With: acceptance, decreasing pain, decreasing stress, forgiveness

10 things that are making you feel worse

Last Updated: February 19, 2021

10 things that are making you feel worse

When you live with chronic illness it's not always the physical actions that make you feel worse. It's not all about what you eat or don't eat, or whether you exercise, or take your meds. Often, the interactions and emotions you allow in your life can do just as much to leave you feeling just as bad … [Read more...]

3 Comments Filed Under: Coping, inspiration, relationships Tagged With: acceptance, forgiveness, guilt

Why Letting Go is the Best Thing You Can Do For Yourself

Last Updated: July 17, 2017

Why letting go is the best thing you can do for yourself

Why ‘letting go’ is the best thing You Can Do For Yourself guest post by Audrey Throne You may feel that holding grudges, anger or resentment is natural, but have you ever considered the toll it takes on you? In a 1988 Gallup poll, it was found that almost 94 percent Americans recognize the … [Read more...]

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Sunday Inspiration: It’s Not All About You

Last Updated: November 17, 2013

 Each week I enjoy sharing some of the blogs that have really caught my attention and inspired me in some way or another." Everyone you meet on the street or are extremely close to is battling something you may have no idea about. Often times I find myself worrying why a friend or family … [Read more...]

Leave a Comment Filed Under: Extra Spoons, inspiration Tagged With: acceptance, forgiveness, sunday inspiration

Sunday Inspiration: Illness, Acceptance & Forgiveness

Last Updated: October 27, 2013

This week I've really been trying to focus on my Mantras: "Let it Go" and "Whatever is Is" and I think it's been helping me avoid getting stuck on the little things. There have been a few posts across the web this week that have inspired me and I want to share those with you in hopes that you will … [Read more...]

Leave a Comment Filed Under: Extra Spoons, inspiration, relationships Tagged With: acceptance, chronic illness, forgiveness, hope, sunday inspiration

The Advantage of Fibro Fog: It’s hard to hold a grudge

Last Updated: September 9, 2013

The advantage of fibro fog: It makes it hard to hold a grudge

Fibro Fog is one of the most annoying symptoms we deal with. It's frustrating beyond all belief! But, today I realized there is one HUGE upside to "the Fog" - we forget a lot of bad things, too. It's so much easier to forgive and forget and move-on, when your memory just isn't there to start … [Read more...]

Leave a Comment Filed Under: Coping, Extra Spoons Tagged With: brain fog, forgiveness, memory issues, positivity

What To Do When Your Plan Fails?

Last Updated: October 24, 2011

Write a New Plan! At least that's my answer.I've posted recently about my new plan to work on pacing and also actually keep up with house cleaning. I'd worked out a system using Remember the Milk to help me keep track of all that needed to be done and mark it off as it was done. Knowing that there … [Read more...]

2 Comments Filed Under: Coping, Extra Spoons Tagged With: forgiveness, happiness, pacing

About Julie

Spoonie. Fibro Warrior. E-health advocate.

Julie Ryan was diagnosed with fibromyalgia in 2010 and endometriosis in 2012. She's lived with chronic migraine most of her life. In 2019 she was diagnosed with inter-cranial hypertension.

Julie has a degree in Psychology, and works as a freelance writer and marketer. Freelance work allows her to work when she can and not be tied to a desk or a schedule. Julie believes in living an inspired life despite chronic illness.

"I have chronic illness, it doesn't have me."

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Blog title inspired by The Spoon Theory, by Christine Miserandino, an excellent explanation of what it's like to live with invisible illness. Read More…

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I am not a doctor. I do not claim to be a doctor. I do not play a doctor on TV or the internet. I simply share my experiences and what has worked for me. We are all different and before you try any new treatment, exercise, supplement, etc you should talk with your doctor (the real one, not the one on TV).

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