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Coping with Fibromyalgia and Chronic Illness

Inspiration and thoughts on how to improve coping skills when dealing with Fibromyalgia, chronic pain, fatigue, and invisible illness.

Mindfulness is not a cure

Last Updated: January 7, 2019

Mindfulness is not a magic bullet that can cure you

Turn Towards The Pain guest post by Leila Nabors, M.Ed., LPC I am always amused when I hear someone talk about mindfulness and meditation as if they are “the cure” for what ails you, the magic bullet. Like, if you meditate your stress goes away, your illness goes into remission, chronic pain … [Read more...]

3 Comments Filed Under: Coping Tagged With: meditation, mindfulness therapy

Is Your Stuff Making You Feel Worse?

Last Updated: November 29, 2018

Is Your Stuff Making You Feel Worse?

Are You Using Stuff to Fill A Void? Every once in a while I watch one of the Hoarding shows and on a couple of different episodes they've mentioned that the person has fibromyalgia. It got me thinking about how we try to fill the void that fibromyalgia puts in our lives. Fibromyalgia takes so … [Read more...]

6 Comments Filed Under: Coping Tagged With: anxiety, decreasing stress, mental health, stress

How Getting Outside Can Improve Your Health

Last Updated: November 19, 2018

How getting outside among the trees can improve your mental and physical health

How Trees Help My Aging and Chronic Disease Mindset guest post by Verla Fortier My family of chronic diseases includes: Systemic Lupus, Raynaud’s, and Sjogren’s Syndrome. I was diagnosed two years ago. I am 65 years old.   Two years ago I was sad, afraid, and hiding inside. When not … [Read more...]

Leave a Comment Filed Under: Coping, Tips and Tricks, Treatment

Handling the Challenges of the Holidays with Chronic Illness: The Ultimate Guide

Last Updated: November 5, 2018

The Ultimate Guide to Handling the Holidays with Chronic Illness Even for the most holiday-loving person the holidays bring stresses and challenges that just aren’t there the rest of the year. For those of us with chronic illnesses like Fibromyalgia, Lyme, and CFS/ME the challenges and … [Read more...]

3 Comments Filed Under: Coping, Tips and Tricks Tagged With: decreasing stress, gifts, holidays, stress, travel

Does Anger Increase Pain?

Last Updated: September 26, 2018

Anger increases pain in fibromyalgia (no really!)

Does anger increase pain? It always amazes me that they do studies to prove what (to me) seems obvious. Those of us with the chronic pain of fibromyalgia already know that the stress of negative emotions like anger increases pain. Anger increases pain. Stress increases pain. Anger increases … [Read more...]

1 Comment Filed Under: Coping, Extra Spoons, Fibromyalgia, Tips and Tricks, Treatment Tagged With: anxiety, chronic illness, chronic pain, decreasing pain, decreasing stress, mental health

Handling the daily challenges of being a parent with chronic illness

Last Updated: September 24, 2018

The daily challenges of being a parent with chronic illness   guest post by Emma England of NotJustTired.com   Being a parent is wonderfully rewarding, and something I feel it to be a real privilege.   However, parenting certainly comes with its fair share of … [Read more...]

Leave a Comment Filed Under: Coping, relationships Tagged With: acceptance, asking for help, chronic fatigue, chronic illness, chronic pain, family, parenting, support

Chronic illness does not mean you are a failure: You are a success story

Last Updated: September 17, 2018

chronic illness does not mean you are a failure. You are a success story (image of woman on top of the world)

Chronic Illness does not mean you are failure Originally published on Prohealth Inspiration Corner There are many ways to gauge success. My view of success has always been a little different than most. Perhaps it’s because of how I was raised, or perhaps it’s just something in how I see the … [Read more...]

8 Comments Filed Under: Close to My Heart, Coping, inspiration Tagged With: chronic fatigue, chronic illness, positivity, suicide

Resonant Botanicals CBD Lotions for Pain Relief & Relaxation

Last Updated: September 7, 2018

Review of Resonant Botanical CBD lotions for pain relief & relaxation

A while back I was contacted to try a new topical hemp (CBD) oil-containing lotion. Resonant Botanicals sent me two of their new CBD lotions for pain relief and anxiety relief to try and review. I started off with CBD lotions from Fay Farm, and Resonant Botanicals was started by one of the … [Read more...]

6 Comments Filed Under: Coping, Fibromyalgia, migraine, Treatment Tagged With: anxiety, cbd oil, muscle relaxers, small fiber neuropathy

10 Things people with chronic illness need to know

Last Updated: August 27, 2018

10 things people with chronic illness need to know

10 things People with fibromyalgia need to know Living with chronic illness has often caused me to doubt myself. In the early days with fibromyalgia I looked in the mirror and at times I hated myself. I blamed myself for my illness and pain. I said terrible things about myself that I'd never … [Read more...]

4 Comments Filed Under: Coping, Extra Spoons, Fibromyalgia Tagged With: asking for help, support

11 Misconceptions of Chronic Illness

Last Updated: August 17, 2018

11 Misconceptions of chronic illness (image of woman looking in mirror and seeing distorted view)

There are many misconceptions about chronic illness, things we hear and know that others think. The worst part is that often we think these same things about ourselves. I have to say I've never seen a group of people talk so poorly about themselves, as those of us living with chronic illness … [Read more...]

20 Comments Filed Under: Coping, inspiration

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About Julie

Spoonie. Fibro Warrior. E-health advocate.

Julie Ryan was diagnosed with fibromyalgia in 2010 and endometriosis in 2012. She's lived with chronic migraine most of her life. In 2019 she was diagnosed with inter-cranial hypertension.

Julie has a degree in Psychology, and works as a freelance writer and marketer. Freelance work allows her to work when she can and not be tied to a desk or a schedule. Julie believes in living an inspired life despite chronic illness.

"I have chronic illness, it doesn't have me."

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Blog title inspired by The Spoon Theory, by Christine Miserandino, an excellent explanation of what it's like to live with invisible illness. Read More…

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I am not a doctor. I do not claim to be a doctor. I do not play a doctor on TV or the internet. I simply share my experiences and what has worked for me. We are all different and before you try any new treatment, exercise, supplement, etc you should talk with your doctor (the real one, not the one on TV).

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