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What causes fibromyalgia flares? My top 6 causes

Last Updated: November 27, 2020

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What Causes Fibromyalgia Flares?

When you live with Fibromyalgia or any chronic illness that “flares” up at various times, life is unpredictable. It’s often hard to know when you might wake up having a bad day or when it may be a good day.

Fibromyalgia flares can show up at any time, without any warning. Sometimes you wake up fine but get hit mid-day. Over the last 10 years of dealing with chronic illness (8 with diagnosed Fibromyalgia), I’ve learned what causes my Fibro flares.

And, while I can’t predict them with 100% accuracy I’ve learned that I can often avoid them, or at least minimize them.

What is a fibro flare?

Flares are increased pain or fatigue, and often both. Sometimes it’s just a fatigue flare, or just a pain flare. When it’s one or the other I can often handle it better. When it’s both, I’m good for nothing.

For some a flare might mean that they can’t move to get out of bed, while others may be able to get out of bed but then may struggle to do even the most basic tasks.

When I have an increase in pain or fatigue I can often still write and work online, but I don’t feel much like moving.

However, when the two combine together I can’t really do anything remotely productive. During those times I have to remind myself that resting is productive, because it leads to feeling better, which means that I can do other things later.

What causes fibro flares? My top 6 triggers/causes

6 common causes of #Fibro flares and how you can avoid and minimize them. Share on X

Perhaps as I share what causes my flares, you recognize a few of your top causes as well.

1 . Diet
Diet doesn’t cause flares for me as much as it used to, mainly because I typically keep a tight reign on what I eat.

I learned through trial and error that eating gluten and/or eating a lot of sugar/starchy or processed foods will leaving me feeling worse than I should.

Gluten containing foods will leave me in pain during the days following ingestion and eating lots of processed sugar-laden foods will leave me just feeling heavy and fatigued.

If you haven’t already I really suggest using a food diary to document what you eat and how you feel at all times. Usually food symptoms don’t show up immediately but rather appear 1-3 days after consumption.

2 . Weather
Despite studies that seem to show that weather is not a factor in Fibromyalgia, I can say without a doubt that weather greatly influences how I feel and is a strong predictor of flares.

Generally, I feel storm fronts and high-pressure fronts as they move in. Once they are here I usually feel better.

However, during seasons when the weather is changing often I tend to feel a lot worse. This Spring/Summer has been one of those seasons for me.

Unfortunately, weather is a factor that I have no control over; but I can still be prepared.

Pay attention to the weather and see if you can identify which patterns may be influencing your flares. From there you can do your best to be ready when they come in, and plan to rest through them rather than fight them.

Related: 10 tips for combating chronic pain in the winter
Related: Tips & tricks for staying warm outside in the winter

3 . Stress
Stress is a part of our everyday lives and often difficult to avoid.

Studies show that stress increases chronic pain and fatigue. Each new responsibility adds more stress. I’ve had to really work to learn to say no to things, and also to avoid things that generally stress me out.

There are certain people, certain websites, certain programs that I know will make me feel more stressed, so I avoid them.

I still struggle though with taking on tasks I think I can handle without thinking, only to realize I’m in over my head after my body alerts me.

Mindfulness Based Stress Reduction has really helped me with being more aware of both my body and my feelings. I’m bad about trying to think through things logically rather than listening to my gut.

When something makes you feel anxious or uncomfortable that’s your body trying to tell you something. Listen to the early warning signs and react appropriately before your full body is enlisted in the fight.

 

4 . Over-exertion
While I can do a lot more these days and often feel like I have no limits, my body sometimes reminds me that that’s still no true.

While I can manage late nights for a night or two, too many in a row will have me spending at least a day in recovery mode. It’s not just late nights, but any sort of recurrent over-exertion will eventually catch up to me.

It’s hard when you’ve been ill to not want to do everything you can on a good day. But, again it’s important to listen to those early warning signs that your body is tired.

When you start feeling it’s time to slow down and rest, it’s time to slow down and rest. Don’t continually push through only to pay for it later.

Pacing yourself allows you to do at least a little every day and avoid so much downtime.

I find it most helpful to break up the tasks I need to do throughout the week, limiting myself so that I’m not trying to do everything at once. I also have to remind myself on days when I get nothing done that it’s OK, it can be done later.

5 . Illness / Injury/ Surgery
The worst flares I’ve had in the last few years have been following surgery, illness, or injury.

Illness, injury, and surgery can cause pain and fatigue on their own, but they can also increase the pain and fatigue you may already be experiencing. While I can’t avoid every illness or injury, I can do your best to minimize them.

Eating a good diet and taking daily supplements to boost my immune system helps reduce illness. I take precautions to avoid injury by paying attention to how my body is reacting at various times and minimizing movement when I feel dizzy or unsteady.

If you must have surgery try to prepare for it in advance by being fully informed about the procedure and the recovery time.

Plan ahead to take a little extra time to recover. Ensure that you have enough pain medication and on hand, as well as healthy food that is easy to prepare.

If you can, have someone else around to help you while you recover as this will minimize your desire to get up and try to do too much too early.

6 . Travel
Travel Is not as flare-inducing for me now as it used to be, largely because I’ve learned to make certain choices and concessions in travel, so that I can maximize my enjoyment while minimizing the stress.

The changes in routine, along with being an uncomfortable, unfamiliar bed and location, carrying heavy bags through airports, jet lag, and even changes in altitude can all increase pain and fatigue.

I’ve learned to minimize flight times, choose airplane seats that allow me to easily get up and stretch, avoid early flight times so that I don’t feel rushed, and plan for downtime both at the beginning of my trip and after returning home to help reduce the likelihood of a travel-related flare.

Remember to take along your own pillow if you can, as well as healthy snacks, and a travel bag that includes pain meds, heat patches, and any other items that help you feel more comfortable.

 

What causes your fibro flares?

Have you identified what causes flares in your life?

If not, you might find it helpful to keep a daily journal, logging what you do throughout the day, who you interact with, what shows you watch, what you eat, and any time you feel stress, or an increase in pain or fatigue.

This will help you start to connect the dots and find ways you can adjust your daily lifestyle to limit your flares.

Keeping a daily journal of what you do and eat, who you spend time with and all aspects of your day, as well as when you feel stress, pain, or fatigue, will help you identify flare causes. Share on X

Related:

  •  5 tips for getting through flares
  • How I shorten fibro flares
  • A playlist for fibromyalgia flare days
  • ABC’s of Bouncing Back from a Flare
  • The Flare Survival Kit
  • Learn to Control Your Pain and Flares

 

 

12 Comments Filed Under: Coping, Fibromyalgia, Tips and Tricks Tagged With: chronic fatigue, chronic pain, diet, flares, pacing, stress, weather

About Julie

Spoonie. Fibro Warrior. E-health advocate.

Julie Ryan was diagnosed with fibromyalgia in 2010 and endometriosis in 2012. She's lived with chronic migraine most of her life. In 2019 she was diagnosed with inter-cranial hypertension.

Julie has a degree in Psychology, and works as a freelance writer and marketer. Freelance work allows her to work when she can and not be tied to a desk or a schedule. Julie believes in living an inspired life despite chronic illness.

"I have chronic illness, it doesn't have me."

More about Julie

Blog title inspired by The Spoon Theory, by Christine Miserandino, an excellent explanation of what it's like to live with invisible illness.

Comments

  1. Kathy3882 says

    October 4, 2024 at 3:54 pm

    Sherylncs: Barometric pressure changes ABSOLUTELY DOES AFFECT OUR PAIN LEVELS. This current Tropical Storm and Hurricane activity affecting the South and the East Coast has me literally bed bound and crying some days, especially if I do too much.

    Reply
  2. Alicia Sandoval says

    March 30, 2024 at 12:59 pm

    I’ve been diagnosed with fibro since I was in my late 30s. That’s when I had my hysterectomy. Something in my body switched and I’ve never been the same again. Pain is a part of my life. Can’t function most days. Thankfully most doctors now agree it’s a thing. I’m 73 and went through life being told I was a hypochondriac. Went through divorce as well. Husband convinced my kids it was all in my head. Headaches were the worse. At least I’m medicated for preventing them now. Still trying to cope by myself. My faith helps.

    Reply
  3. Adra Finnie says

    May 28, 2023 at 7:32 pm

    I have been living with Fibromyalgia for 30 years. I wasn’t diagnosed with it until I was 18 although it started way before then. I have chronic migraines and many other chronic illnesses that go hand and hand with fibromyalgia.
    I have come full circle the doctors have put me on the same meds they had put me on when I was first diagnosed it didn’t work then and it doesn’t work now. I have a high intolerance for exercise it makes me sicker than then the flares do. The weather is the biggest trigger I feel it three days before when it finally does something I get some relief then three days after it’s bad again it’s like my pain gates never close. Sometimes it’s so bad that I need to use an aid to walk like walls and furniture just to get around both cold and hot are another trigger for flares. It takes me forever to do the simplest things.

    Reply
  4. patricia says

    September 30, 2022 at 12:35 pm

    Thank you for this post. I was diagnosed in 2001. I think I have every thing possible with Fibro.
    Still haven’t learned the foods that trigger though. I think I found out today that potatoes are a no.no. I will look into this more. My Husband of 20 yrs thinks its all in my head and he really stress me out. Thanks again for sharing.It helps to know that i really am not crazy

    Reply
  5. Sherylncs says

    March 1, 2021 at 8:23 pm

    I am certain there is a link between fibro flares and barometric pressure. I wish they would do an extensive study. I get a bad flareup every time there is a barometric pressure change, like before storms and fronts.

    Reply
  6. Karen says

    October 1, 2019 at 10:39 pm

    Hi Julie, your emails are so informative!!!!! I enjoy and learn from reading every one! Thank you so much for all your efforts. Now, I wonder, what is a you bar?

    Reply
    • Julie says

      October 2, 2019 at 10:53 am

      You bars are customizable snack/energy bars. They used to let anyone customize their own box of bars however you like. From the looks of it they’ve moved away from that and just do it for companies and such now on a larger scale.

      Reply
    • Joyce Hatley says

      February 28, 2021 at 9:16 pm

      My name is Joyce
      I have had fibermyligy I think all my life.i hurt so bad when I was in grade school and I am still hurting.
      Thank you for the tips.

      Reply
  7. Sophia says

    August 8, 2019 at 6:47 am

    Thank you very much for the opportunity to share information with you people…I was diagnosed last year with fibromyalgia and treated with drug etanercept for the last six months. Didnt work much though and I get severe pains during winter especially if the weather changes for the worst mostly the previous day. I was waiting impatiently for the summer to come because I was told it was going to get better…Didnt…only think that really works is aqua aerobics…cold water relaxes me and no matter how tired I am when I finish class I feel so much better…thanks again 🙂

    Reply
  8. TravelWithM.E. says

    March 4, 2019 at 8:18 am

    Fantastic post. I have suffered with M.E for 15/16 years now but the last 3 years my symptoms have been different and flares more severe. My doctor confirmed Fibro. I truly believe any change has an effect. For me its definitely the weather, stress and exertion. Particularly in the winter. I used to get so ill travelling before making the changes that you have advised here. Now I live for the summers and going to hot countries. Im like a different person. Best wishes to all you spoonies.

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  9. Julie says

    November 27, 2018 at 10:50 am

    My top 3 causes of a flare for me are getting hot (so the Summers are really bad since I live in Texas), exertion and especially stress. What’s really bad is when I have a flare caused by all three. I’m drained, fatigued and in pain for at least 2 to 3 days when I’m trying to recover. I work full time and I’m usually fine the first part of the week but usually by Thursday, I’m struggling. Then my weekend is spent recovering and getting ready to go back and do it again. It’s really hard especially when my co-workers don’t get it. They think I’ll get better soon.

    Reply
  10. Leanne says

    October 27, 2018 at 7:20 pm

    Hi I a suffer from fibromyalgia and arthritis for over 10 years now. I have been trying cold laser treatment and it has been working and the pain is easing off every session. I do recommend this.

    Reply

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About Julie

Spoonie. Fibro Warrior. E-health advocate.

Julie Ryan was diagnosed with fibromyalgia in 2010 and endometriosis in 2012. She's lived with chronic migraine most of her life. In 2019 she was diagnosed with inter-cranial hypertension.

Julie has a degree in Psychology, and works as a freelance writer and marketer. Freelance work allows her to work when she can and not be tied to a desk or a schedule. Julie believes in living an inspired life despite chronic illness.

"I have chronic illness, it doesn't have me."

More about Julie

Blog title inspired by The Spoon Theory, by Christine Miserandino, an excellent explanation of what it's like to live with invisible illness. Read More…

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