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Does Anger Increase Pain?

Last Updated: September 26, 2018

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Does anger increase pain?

It always amazes me that they do studies to prove what (to me) seems obvious. Those of us with the chronic pain of fibromyalgia already know that the stress of negative emotions like anger increases pain.

Anger increases pain.
Stress increases pain.
Anger increases stress, so that’s a double increase on pain.

Related: Symptoms & Signs of Fibromyalgia

Let’s see. When you are angry, you are stressed and you are going to hold your muscles tight, grit your teeth, etc. Tightening your muscles puts your body in an uncomfortable position and that is going to increase pain. It just makes sense.

A 2010 study verified this conclusion and compared the responses of women with fibromyalgia to a group without.

Participants were asked to recall neutral, sad, and angry situations. The effects of these emotions on pain were then measured. Both sadness and anger resulted in higher pain reports and lower pain threshold and tolerance.

Yes, anger increases pain. I really think this might be one reason that forgiveness is so important when we have fibromyalgia. And, also possibly a reason that mindfulness can be so helpful.

So now that we have the obvious out of the way, what do we do about it?

Anger creates stress, which increases pain and fatigue. How do you let go of anger? Try these 6 tips. Share on X

I can tell you what I do to try to deal with anger, stress, and anxiety.

6 Ways to decrease anger, stress, & anxiety

6 Ways to Decrease Anger & Stress

 


1. Regular exercise

When I’m not getting regular exercise, I feel my stress level increase and my temper gets shorter. I find that regular low-impact exercise like walking or tai chi relaxes me and helps me deal with stress easier.

2. Breathe

When I feel myself getting stressed I try to take some time to breathe deep. Focusing on that breath (think yoga, and if you aren’t familiar pick up a basic yoga dvd), takes my focus off whatever is stressing me.

3. Lay down

It’s really hard to stay angry when you are laying down. Sure you may be anxious, angry and stressed when you first lay down but give it a try.

Open your palms, lay flat on your back for 10 minutes and see if you after 10 minutes you aren’t feeling better.

4. Acupuncture

Seriously. I had no idea there was an acupuncture point for anxiety but one day when I was having a really high anxiety day I asked (really I was only half serious since I didn’t think there was one) and sure enough my chiropractor said there was.

Turns out it’s at the top of your head. After about 5 minutes with the needle in the top of my head I couldn’t even remember what I was anxious about. Now he includes this needle with my regular treatment and I can tell the difference.

5. Walk Away

So many of the fights we get into with those we love are just because both of us are tired and irritable, not because the thing we are fighting over matters. Sometimes the best thing to do is to just walk away.

Ask yourself, what’s more important, being right or being happy?

When you think about how much more damage being angry or upset could be doing to you, you are even more likely to choose being happy.

6. Forgive

Often we hold onto anger from past hurts. I’ve been guilty of this so many times. It’s a struggle to really let go of hurts others have caused us. We relieve them creating more stress.

Forgiveness doesn’t mean forgetting what they’ve done, but it does mean letting go of the anger. Remember that forgiveness isn’t really about them, it’s about you.

Need help letting go of anger? Try these 6 tips. Share on X

The fact that anger/ stress/ depression increase pain is a bit of a catch-22 or circular logic. Those things increase pain. But, the fact that we are in pain and can’t do what we want to be doing makes us angry/ stressed and depressed.

I think this may be part of why medicines like Cymbalta work so well for Fibromyalgia even when anxiety or depression don’t seem to be an issue.

While stress and depression may not be an issue initially taking these types of meds may actually head off the likelihood of those issues developing as the pain worsens, thus keeping the pain from increasing.

What do you do to decrease your anger or stress ? Share your tips in the comments below.

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  • 6 Steps for Coping with Stress and Reducing Fibromyalgia Symptoms

Source:

van Middendorp, H., Lumley, M. A., Jacobs, J. W., Bijlsma, J. W., & Geenen, R. (2010). The effects of anger and sadness on clinical pain reports and experimentally‐induced pain thresholds in women with and without fibromyalgia. Arthritis care & research, 62(10), 1370-1376.

1 Comment Filed Under: Coping, Extra Spoons, Fibromyalgia, Tips and Tricks, Treatment Tagged With: anxiety, chronic illness, chronic pain, decreasing pain, decreasing stress, mental health

About Julie

Spoonie. Fibro Warrior. E-health advocate.

Julie Ryan was diagnosed with fibromyalgia in 2010 and endometriosis in 2012. She's lived with chronic migraine most of her life. In 2019 she was diagnosed with inter-cranial hypertension.

Julie has a degree in Psychology, and works as a freelance writer and marketer. Freelance work allows her to work when she can and not be tied to a desk or a schedule. Julie believes in living an inspired life despite chronic illness.

"I have chronic illness, it doesn't have me."

More about Julie

Blog title inspired by The Spoon Theory, by Christine Miserandino, an excellent explanation of what it's like to live with invisible illness.

Comments

  1. yngathrrt says

    November 12, 2010 at 1:55 am

    Julie, this is an EXCELLENT write. HOT, HOT baths are what I enjoy, as with me, it is a stress reliever, as well as a pain reliever in my case.

    You touch on so many things that I know so well. Especially when it comes to stress and TIGHTENING up, which is horrible for a Fibro cause, and the pain sets in. Stress will many times associate pain with me, and this can be found with me holding my chest (where my pain is)and will cause my veins, especially in my risk, to show very blue.

    #3. That you explained with laying down is very important. When I do this, I try to relax every muscle in my body, starting with my feet, then going up through my entire body. I use thoughts of thinking that your feet are falling into a state of comfort, and work myself up to my head, until I am pretty much almost asleep. Yet, sometimes this does not always work, and the pain and stress level seems to not work together. If it is only stress, I can do it. If pain is involved, it is harder to do.

    You are spot on when it comes to having to walk away from a fight. There is a difference between having to fight the battle, being right on the win, and just walking away from it all. Sometimes, just walking away proves to be the best thing, especially if you can see things in a better light the next day.

    Fibro does place someone in a catch 22, which is hard to deal with at times. Pain, stress and anger can cause havoc on a body, especially if you have to deal with all three at the same time.

    You have given me much to think about.

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About Julie

Spoonie. Fibro Warrior. E-health advocate.

Julie Ryan was diagnosed with fibromyalgia in 2010 and endometriosis in 2012. She's lived with chronic migraine most of her life. In 2019 she was diagnosed with inter-cranial hypertension.

Julie has a degree in Psychology, and works as a freelance writer and marketer. Freelance work allows her to work when she can and not be tied to a desk or a schedule. Julie believes in living an inspired life despite chronic illness.

"I have chronic illness, it doesn't have me."

More about Julie

Blog title inspired by The Spoon Theory, by Christine Miserandino, an excellent explanation of what it's like to live with invisible illness. Read More…

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