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4 Ways I’ve stopped giving away my energy

Last Updated: July 24, 2017

Why are you giving away your energy?

Energy - that thing that those of us with chronic illness fight to have enough of. Yet, I've found lately that I have more and more of it. Why? Because I've stopped giving away so much energy for no return. How have I gotten my energy back? It's not been easy, and it's a struggle, but the … [Read more...]

2 Comments Filed Under: Coping, Extra Spoons, relationships Tagged With: asking for help, chronic fatigue, energy, pacing, support

4 Signs That You Are Doing Too Much

Last Updated: September 5, 2016

Is it time to rest? 4 signs you are doing too much.

Are you doing too much? I've been doing more and more lately, or so it feels like. Maybe I'm not. When I compare to this time last year when I was doing a lot of freelance work, going to school full time, working in lab hours, doing non-profit work, and still blogging, maybe I'm doing … [Read more...]

10 Comments Filed Under: Coping, inspiration Tagged With: pacing

Life Gets Overwhelming Sometimes

Last Updated: September 21, 2015

Life gets overwhelming sometimes

I don't know about you but for me life gets overwhelming sometimes. There is so much you want to do and often so much you need to do that it can feel like it will never happen. At least that’s how it is for me. This summer I’ve been feeling overwhelmed a lot, between keeping up with writing, plus … [Read more...]

9 Comments Filed Under: Coping, Extra Spoons Tagged With: pacing

Counting spoons with the #spoontheory

Last Updated: May 24, 2015

The idea of spoons when it comes to chronic illness is that spoons are akin to energy. Counting your spoons is the idea of tracking how much energy you have and what you need to do and balancing those two in hopes of avoiding running out of spoons. The idea is that healthy people have seemingly … [Read more...]

1 Comment Filed Under: Coping, Fibromyalgia, inspiration Tagged With: pacing

Learning the Importance of Pacing with Fibromyalgia

Last Updated: May 4, 2015

The importance of pacing with fibromyalgia

  The Importance of Pacing and Fibromyalgia Pacing is possibly your greatest ally in avoiding the roller coaster of pain and fatigue that is often associated with Fibromyalgia. Pacing is simply the act of learning your limits and working with them. Instead of trying to complete large … [Read more...]

6 Comments Filed Under: Coping, Extra Spoons, Fibromyalgia Tagged With: pacing

Sunday Inspiration: Turn Into the Skid

Last Updated: April 26, 2015

When you feel your car go into a skid, should you: a) try to hold the wheel as steady as possibleb) steer into the skid c) step on the brake d) take your foot off the gas e) floor it f) steer in the direction you want the car to go. I can hear you now asking "Julie, WTH does this have to do … [Read more...]

Leave a Comment Filed Under: Coping, inspiration Tagged With: decreasing stress, pacing

Within My Control: 5 Lessons in Pain Management

Last Updated: April 20, 2015

5 keys to self-managing chronic pain

Within My Control:5 Lessons in Pain Management Guest Post by Mandy Mercuri from Take Hold of Pain Six years ago I attended a 3 week intensive hospital-based pain management clinic. It changed my life! During this course, I learned that pain is just a sensation within my body. Oftentimes the … [Read more...]

5 Comments Filed Under: Coping, Tips and Tricks, Treatment Tagged With: acceptance, chronic pain, decreasing pain, decreasing stress, meditation, mindfulness therapy, pacing, stress

Wearables for tracking sleep and improving pain

Last Updated: March 6, 2015

Wearables are the latest rage, it seems; little armbands that can track everything from how many steps you take,  how many moves you make, to how much sleep you get - they are watching you! I've seen them on the arms of everyone from teachers to doctors lately, and I even got one for my birthday - … [Read more...]

7 Comments Filed Under: Coping, Fibromyalgia, Symptoms, Tips and Tricks Tagged With: pacing, sleep, sleep aids

Jumping Out of My “Zone”

Last Updated: July 1, 2014

Since I started back to school this summer, we've talked a lot about how much I can handle. The first couple of weeks of my summer class were all about me getting used to having this new responsibility / schedule on my plate. All the while, I was debating whether to add a second summer class during … [Read more...]

8 Comments Filed Under: Coping, My Life Tagged With: pacing, school

Fibromyalgia: The Little Engine That Should

Last Updated: April 20, 2014

Fibromyalgia: The Little Engine that SHOULD

How much time do you spend thinking about things you feel you should be doing? I bet you are sitting there reading this right now thinking about all the things you should be doing today, running yourself into quite the little guilt trip. I've been there more often than I can count. And, I'm not … [Read more...]

3 Comments Filed Under: Coping, Extra Spoons, Fibromyalgia, inspiration Tagged With: guilt, pacing

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About Julie

Spoonie. Fibro Warrior. E-health advocate.

Julie Ryan was diagnosed with fibromyalgia in 2010 and endometriosis in 2012. She's lived with chronic migraine most of her life. In 2019 she was diagnosed with inter-cranial hypertension.

Julie has a degree in Psychology, and works as a freelance writer and marketer. Freelance work allows her to work when she can and not be tied to a desk or a schedule. Julie believes in living an inspired life despite chronic illness.

"I have chronic illness, it doesn't have me."

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Blog title inspired by The Spoon Theory, by Christine Miserandino, an excellent explanation of what it's like to live with invisible illness. Read More…

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I am not a doctor. I do not claim to be a doctor. I do not play a doctor on TV or the internet. I simply share my experiences and what has worked for me. We are all different and before you try any new treatment, exercise, supplement, etc you should talk with your doctor (the real one, not the one on TV).

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