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5 Ways you can hit the reset button on life

Last Updated: March 12, 2021

5 ways to hit the reset button on life

Have you ever just wanted to hit the reset button on life? I'm pretty sure we all have at some point or another. There have been many times in my life when I've been so overwhelmed that I wished I could just hit a reset button on life and start over. I'd love to hit the reset button and go back … [Read more...]

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10 Ways to reduce stress related to chronic illness

Last Updated: March 10, 2021

10 ways to reduce stress

When we have a lot going on in life, things get stressful. Even if the busyness is enjoyable it can still lead to stress. And, when you live with chronic illness the last thing you need is additional stress. So, it's important that we find ways to reduce stress as much as possible.  11 Ways to … [Read more...]

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8 Songs to calm you when everything seems out of control

Last Updated: November 3, 2020

9 songs to lift you up when you're feeling down

8 Songs to Calm You When Life Feels Out of Control Stress and anxiety are not friends of chronic illness. Sadly, sometimes it seems like those two seek us out and harass us to no end. Not long ago, I had a situation arise that really stressed me out. I was feeling pushed to do something that was … [Read more...]

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5 mental shifts that I had to make to feel better

Last Updated: June 15, 2020

5 mental shifts that I had to make in order to feel better

  I've had many positive changes in my life since being diagnosed with fibromyalgia. I've gone from so fatigued and in pain that I could barely do anything but lay on the couch and watch TV to finishing a degree, establishing a new career in freelance writing, to starting (and selling) a … [Read more...]

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6 Things to focus on in uncertain times

Last Updated: April 20, 2020

6 things I focus on during uncertain times

We are in the midst of uncertain times, probably the most uncertain times most of us have ever lived through. It feels as if the world is collectively holding its breath as we we creep through the month of April, in hopes that things might return to normal sometime soon. Times are definitely … [Read more...]

3 Comments Filed Under: Coping Tagged With: mental health, positivity

Is Your Stuff Making You Feel Worse?

Last Updated: November 29, 2018

Is Your Stuff Making You Feel Worse?

Are You Using Stuff to Fill A Void? Every once in a while I watch one of the Hoarding shows and on a couple of different episodes they've mentioned that the person has fibromyalgia. It got me thinking about how we try to fill the void that fibromyalgia puts in our lives. Fibromyalgia takes so … [Read more...]

6 Comments Filed Under: Coping Tagged With: anxiety, decreasing stress, mental health, stress

Does Anger Increase Pain?

Last Updated: September 26, 2018

Anger increases pain in fibromyalgia (no really!)

Does anger increase pain? It always amazes me that they do studies to prove what (to me) seems obvious. Those of us with the chronic pain of fibromyalgia already know that the stress of negative emotions like anger increases pain. Anger increases pain. Stress increases pain. Anger increases … [Read more...]

1 Comment Filed Under: Coping, Extra Spoons, Fibromyalgia, Tips and Tricks, Treatment Tagged With: anxiety, chronic illness, chronic pain, decreasing pain, decreasing stress, mental health

Tips for holiday stress relief

Last Updated: December 25, 2017

Tips for dealing with holiday stress

11 Tips for Holiday Stress Relief I hope you are able to enjoy a relaxing day with friends and family whatever you choose to celebrate (or not) this holiday season. I know that regardless of what holidays you may celebrate this time of year can bring a lot of stress. Over the years I've put … [Read more...]

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5 things to help you deal with year end anxiety

Last Updated: December 4, 2017

A New Year Brings New Anxiety I struggle a lot this time of year, and I'm pretty sure I'm not alone. The holidays bring a lot of stress and I've realized this year that there are things about this particular time of year that bring me stress beyond the typical holiday stress. I noticed a few … [Read more...]

1 Comment Filed Under: Coping, Extra Spoons Tagged With: anxiety, holidays, mental health

How to keep from growing bitter when you aren’t getting better

Last Updated: September 11, 2017

How to avoid growing bitter when you aren't getting better

How to Keep from Growing Bitter When You Aren't Getting Better guest post by Angie Glaser On August 21, 2017, the moon, Earth, and sun lined up perfectly causing the morning sky to darken in a solar eclipse. Morning darkness is eerie. Everything is where it should be -  except the … [Read more...]

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About Julie

Spoonie. Fibro Warrior. E-health advocate.

Julie Ryan was diagnosed with fibromyalgia in 2010 and endometriosis in 2012. She's lived with chronic migraine most of her life. In 2019 she was diagnosed with inter-cranial hypertension.

Julie has a degree in Psychology, and works as a freelance writer and marketer. Freelance work allows her to work when she can and not be tied to a desk or a schedule. Julie believes in living an inspired life despite chronic illness.

"I have chronic illness, it doesn't have me."

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Blog title inspired by The Spoon Theory, by Christine Miserandino, an excellent explanation of what it's like to live with invisible illness. Read More…

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I am not a doctor. I do not claim to be a doctor. I do not play a doctor on TV or the internet. I simply share my experiences and what has worked for me. We are all different and before you try any new treatment, exercise, supplement, etc you should talk with your doctor (the real one, not the one on TV).

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