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Sunday Inspiration: What do you expect from a doctor

Last Updated: February 8, 2015

What do you want from your doctor?

This week I read a post from Sue Ingbretson asking what you expect when you visit your doctor, more specifically What Rx Do you Expect from a Doctor? As her posts often do, this question got me thinking and I decided I would share my thoughts here (because that's what Sunday Inspiration is … [Read more...]

5 Comments Filed Under: Extra Spoons, Treatment Tagged With: asking for help, dealing with doctors, doctors, sunday inspiration

The Pain Scale is a Chronic Pain

Last Updated: January 26, 2015

Chronic pain and the pain scale

 I hate when doctors ask me to rate my pain.  It's probably my biggest pet peeve when visiting the doctor (right up there with being weighed - who needs that stress?) How am I supposed to rate my pain? They say it's on a scale of 1 to 10, but what am I comparing it to? Recently, I had a … [Read more...]

4 Comments Filed Under: Coping, Fibromyalgia, Symptoms Tagged With: chronic pain, communication, dealing with doctors, doctors

5 Reasons why I am a terrible patient

Last Updated: December 22, 2014

5 things that make me a bad patient

I admit it, I'm probably the world's worst patient. If I look at all the advice online of things I should be doing as a patient, I can easily come to the conclusion that I am a terrible patient.  What makes me a  terrible patient? 1 . I have made no effort to get contact info for my … [Read more...]

4 Comments Filed Under: Extra Spoons Tagged With: dealing with doctors, doctors

Why are Doctors Reluctant to Treat Fibromyalgia Patients

Last Updated: September 19, 2014

Why are doctors reluctant to treat fibromyalgia patients?

We've all been there, struggling to understand why a doctor seems unwilling to treat us, and it feels like the only reason is because we have fibromyalgia. Why does it often feel like doctors discriminate against us because we have this illness? The easy answer is to believe that it's because … [Read more...]

12 Comments Filed Under: Medical Studies, Treatment Tagged With: dealing with doctors, doctors, perceptions

How to Be Your Own Health Advocate

Last Updated: September 15, 2014

As patients we often hear that we need to be our own health advocate, but what does that even mean? And how do you do it? What does it mean to be a health advocate? The very basic meaning of advocate is "a person who speaks or writes in support or defense of a person, cause, etc" or "a person … [Read more...]

2 Comments Filed Under: Coping, Tips and Tricks, Treatment Tagged With: dealing with doctors, medical records

3 Things that Affect Our Communication with Doctors

Last Updated: July 18, 2014

3 Things That Affect Our Communication with Doctors Reading 3 Reasons Doctors Need to Understand Their Patients Health Beliefs and it struck me how important it is for us to have a good relationship with our doctor. We need to have communication with our doctor almost at the same level we have with … [Read more...]

4 Comments Filed Under: Coping, Treatment Tagged With: chronic illness, dealing with doctors, doctors

Dismissive Doctors and the Death of Compassion for Invisible Illness

Last Updated: June 30, 2014

Hey Doctor, remember me? I'm the one you dismissed. You said I was faking it or it was all in my head. Well, guess what... you were wrong. We've all been there at least once with a dismissive doctor and oh how we long to be able to go back to them the way that Dorothy did on Golden … [Read more...]

5 Comments Filed Under: Coping, Treatment Tagged With: dealing with doctors, doctors, invisible illness

Customer Service and Communication: Part 2

Last Updated: June 3, 2014

Customer Service and Communication Last week I wrote about  the doctor that regularly has the two-hour wait and how she'd told me to call for test results, only for me to do so and have her staff tell me I had to come in to have the results read to me. After I made the appointment to come in … [Read more...]

4 Comments Filed Under: Coping, My Life, Treatment Tagged With: communication, dealing with doctors, doctors, thyroid

Customer Service and Communication: My Pet Peeve

Last Updated: May 26, 2014

This post is going to be a little more negative than I like to be, because it deals with one of my greatest pet peeves - Poor Communication and Customer Service, especially in the health industry We've all had he experience where we go to the doctor and wait two hours for a five-minute … [Read more...]

Leave a Comment Filed Under: My Life, Treatment Tagged With: communication, dealing with doctors, doctors

7 Tips For Better Doctor Visits

Last Updated: March 16, 2014

I originally posted this back in May of 2010, but I thought my current readers may enjoy seeing it. After changing GPs in 2010, I realized that there were a few ways that I could help make sure that the transition went well, and take those same things into other doctors to make things easier for … [Read more...]

3 Comments Filed Under: Tips and Tricks, Treatment Tagged With: dealing with doctors, diagnosis, doctors

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About Julie

Spoonie. Fibro Warrior. E-health advocate.

Julie Ryan was diagnosed with fibromyalgia in 2010 and endometriosis in 2012. She's lived with chronic migraine most of her life. In 2019 she was diagnosed with inter-cranial hypertension.

Julie has a degree in Psychology, and works as a freelance writer and marketer. Freelance work allows her to work when she can and not be tied to a desk or a schedule. Julie believes in living an inspired life despite chronic illness.

"I have chronic illness, it doesn't have me."

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Blog title inspired by The Spoon Theory, by Christine Miserandino, an excellent explanation of what it's like to live with invisible illness. Read More…

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I am not a doctor. I do not claim to be a doctor. I do not play a doctor on TV or the internet. I simply share my experiences and what has worked for me. We are all different and before you try any new treatment, exercise, supplement, etc you should talk with your doctor (the real one, not the one on TV).

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