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Fibromyalgia and Marriage

Chronic Illness and Marriage

Fibromyalgia and chronic illness creates stress that can do some pretty bad things to a marriage. When you live with chronic illness it affects how you interact with those around you and especially those closest to you.

These posts are about dealing with Fibromyalgia, chronic pain, fatigue, or any chronic illness and marriage. Illness impacts our relationships, but especially our marriages.

Some of the most popular posts in this category are:

  • What fibromyalgia does to a marriage
  • When you are jealous of your healthy spouse
  • When your partner is struggling with chronic illness and pushing you away

Fibromyalgia, Pelvic Pain and Pelvic Floor Physical Therapy (Guest Post)

Last Updated: December 12, 2014

pelvic floor physical therapy

  Fibromyalgia, Pelvic Pain and Pelvic Floor Physical Therapy by Lauren I’ve struggled with intermittent, unexplained pelvic pain for many years. As a teenager, my cramps were excruciating. My family doctor thought it was ovarian cysts and gave me a prescription for the birth control pill. … [Read more...]

4 Comments Filed Under: Fibro and Marriage, Fibromyalgia, Symptoms, Treatment Tagged With: abdominal pain, chronic pain, pelvic pain, physical therapy

Spoonie Caregiver – Simon

Last Updated: December 10, 2014

This week I'm interviewing another spoonie caregiver. Simon lives in Cheshire in the Northwest of the UK, he’s 45, works as an IT Manager, for a Global blue-chip company. He is also a qualified hypnotherapist, NLP practitioner and Time Line Therapist. How did you and your partner meet? And … [Read more...]

1 Comment Filed Under: Fibro and Marriage, Fibro Warriors, Fibromyalgia, relationships

Fibro Warrior Wednesday – Interview with a caregiver – John

Last Updated: November 12, 2014

This week I'm sharing another interview with a caregiver; I'm talking with John Burris of Huntsville, AL. His wife Bev is a friend of mine. They've been together for 40 years. Give me just a few basics about you personally: I'm 57, spent pretty much all of my life in the building business in one … [Read more...]

Leave a Comment Filed Under: Fibro and Marriage, Fibro Warriors, relationships Tagged With: support

6 Things the Chronically Ill Wish Healthy People Could Understand

Last Updated: October 20, 2014

  I started thinking about this topic recently, about how there are certain things about living with chronic pain that those around us will never understand. That a healthy person just can't (sometimes won't) understand. As I thought about what came to my own mind, I asked the question … [Read more...]

16 Comments Filed Under: Close to My Heart, Coping, Extra Spoons, Fibro and Marriage, Fibromyalgia, friendship, relationships Tagged With: chronic illness, chronic pain

Spoonie Caregiver – Weldon Patterson

Last Updated: September 24, 2014

Changing things up a little again this week, I'm talking with a Spoonie Caregiver - Weldon Patterson. Weldon is the husband of my friend Beverly Patterson, who was also my very first Fibro Warrior interviewee. Weldon is 52 years old and lives in Madison, AL. Prior to moving to Alabama he lived in … [Read more...]

1 Comment Filed Under: Fibro and Marriage, Fibro Warriors, Fibromyalgia

Sunday Inspiration: Chronic Illness and Friendships

Last Updated: August 31, 2014

Chronic Marriage is one of my favorite blogs to follow. It's one of only two (that I know of) that focus on what it's like to deal with chronic illness within a marriage. Not long ago she shared a post about "Why Friendships are Important to Your Marriage". There were a couple of statements she made … [Read more...]

2 Comments Filed Under: Fibro and Marriage, friendship, inspiration, relationships

Fibro Warrior Wednesday – Ken McKim – Spoonie Husband and Activist

Last Updated: August 13, 2014

This week I'm interviewing the husband of a Spoonie. Ken McKim has become an activist because of his wife's health issues. Recently, I shared his video on the Slow Death of Compassion for the Chronically Ill. Since then he's expanded his activism, set up a blog, and created a number of new videos. … [Read more...]

Leave a Comment Filed Under: Fibro and Marriage, Fibro Warriors, Fibromyalgia, relationships

Fibro Warrior Wednesday – Thoughts from a Spoonie Partner

Last Updated: July 23, 2014

This week I thought I'd do something a little bit different for the Fibro Warrior Wednesday interview. I'm talking to a different kind of warrior, a spoonie partner. A few weeks ago we talked with Nick Lutes. This week I'm going to interview his girlfriend, Kim. Kim is 32, and (like Nick) lives in … [Read more...]

2 Comments Filed Under: Fibro and Marriage, Fibro Warriors, Fibromyalgia, relationships

Caution: Chronic Illness May Cause Relationship Conflicts

Last Updated: June 22, 2014

Relationship issues have been in the foreground of my mind lately, so today's Sunday Inspiration post has been inspired by three posts on handling relationship conflicts. We've been in counseling for several months now and if there's one thing I've learned it's that I can't focus on what I'd want … [Read more...]

2 Comments Filed Under: Close to My Heart, Coping, Extra Spoons, Fibro and Marriage, inspiration, relationships Tagged With: communication, sunday inspiration

11 Things You Should Never Say to Someone With Fibromyalgia

Last Updated: June 6, 2014

Things You Should Never Say to Someone Who Has Fibromyalgia Someone you know and love has Fibromyalgia or suffers from some sort of chronic pain. And, at some point you've said something to them that hurt their feelings and made them feel worse. You had no idea you did it. It's unlikely that … [Read more...]

20 Comments Filed Under: Coping, Extra Spoons, Fibro and Marriage, Fibromyalgia, friendship, relationships Tagged With: chronic illness, communication

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About Julie

Spoonie. Fibro Warrior. E-health advocate.

Julie Ryan was diagnosed with fibromyalgia in 2010 and endometriosis in 2012. She's lived with chronic migraine most of her life. In 2019 she was diagnosed with inter-cranial hypertension.

Julie has a degree in Psychology, and works as a freelance writer and marketer. Freelance work allows her to work when she can and not be tied to a desk or a schedule. Julie believes in living an inspired life despite chronic illness.

"I have chronic illness, it doesn't have me."

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Blog title inspired by The Spoon Theory, by Christine Miserandino, an excellent explanation of what it's like to live with invisible illness. Read More…

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I am not a doctor. I do not claim to be a doctor. I do not play a doctor on TV or the internet. I simply share my experiences and what has worked for me. We are all different and before you try any new treatment, exercise, supplement, etc you should talk with your doctor (the real one, not the one on TV).

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