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Fibromyalgia and Marriage

Chronic Illness and Marriage

Fibromyalgia and chronic illness creates stress that can do some pretty bad things to a marriage. When you live with chronic illness it affects how you interact with those around you and especially those closest to you.

These posts are about dealing with Fibromyalgia, chronic pain, fatigue, or any chronic illness and marriage. Illness impacts our relationships, but especially our marriages.

Some of the most popular posts in this category are:

  • What fibromyalgia does to a marriage
  • When you are jealous of your healthy spouse
  • When your partner is struggling with chronic illness and pushing you away

Fibromyalgia and sexual dysfunction

Last Updated: August 24, 2018

fibromyalgia and sexual dysfunction - examining the problems, potential causes, and solutions

Sexual dysfunction, including pain during and after sex, vaginal dryness, inability to achieve or maintain arousal, and inability to orgasm, is common among women with fibromyalgia. More than 85% of women with fibromyalgia report one or more issues relating to sexual dysfunction (while only about … [Read more...]

3 Comments Filed Under: endometriosis, Fibro and Marriage, Fibromyalgia, Medical Studies, relationships Tagged With: chronic pain, pelvic pain, sex

The Impact of Chronic Illness on Marriage

Last Updated: August 16, 2018

The impact of chronic illness on marriage

Unless you were already sick before you met your partner, it's highly likely that your relationship took a drastic change when you became ill. Perhaps you had a great sex life, you went out often and did lots of things together, you traveled, you enjoyed life. I know that's how it was with my … [Read more...]

30 Comments Filed Under: Close to My Heart, Fibro and Marriage, relationships Tagged With: chronic illness, chronic pain, communication, personality, sex, support

Four Things About Chronic Illness My Family Needed To Know

Last Updated: July 30, 2018

four things about living with chronic illness that my family needs to know

Four Things About Chronic Illness My Family Needed To Know guest post by Anita Wilson I am not the only one suffering from migraine. My family also suffers with me. In addition to episodic migraines,  I have significant issues with balance, and I have had many traumatic falls and injuries. … [Read more...]

2 Comments Filed Under: Coping, Fibro and Marriage, migraine, relationships Tagged With: asking for help, family

8 Gifts Your Loved One With Chronic Illness Really Wants

Last Updated: November 27, 2017

8 gifts people with chronic illness really want

8 Gifts Your Loved One with Chronic Illness Really Wants This time of year we are all thinking about what those around us want, but we should be thinking about it all year around. I've posted my annual gift guide, a list of items you can buy (or make) for your loved one that they will surely … [Read more...]

Leave a Comment Filed Under: Fibro and Marriage, friendship, relationships, Tips and Tricks Tagged With: acceptance, chronic illness, gifts

When You are Jealous of Your Healthy Spouse

Last Updated: April 21, 2017

What to do when you're jealous of your healthy spouse

Jealous of your healthy spouse? Guest post from Kim at GraceisSufficient.com   Jealousy is a major factor in the break-up of many couples - whether or not one has a chronic illness. Add the difficulty brought on by medical issues and the bond is truly going to be tested. Therefore, it's … [Read more...]

1 Comment Filed Under: Fibro and Marriage Tagged With: jealousy

When Your Partner is Struggling with Chronic Illness and Pushing You Away

Last Updated: April 17, 2017

What to do when partner is struggling with chronic illness and pushing you away

The below came from an email sent to me by a reader. After I answered his email I realized that he's so not alone and that my response might be helpful for many other partner's of those with chronic illness, so I asked his permission to share his question. "My wife suffers from chronic illness. … [Read more...]

11 Comments Filed Under: Close to My Heart, Coping, Fibro and Marriage, Fibromyalgia, relationships Tagged With: communication, sex

What those with Chronic Illness Wish Healthy People Understood

Last Updated: February 8, 2016

There are many things that those of us with chronic illness wish our healthy counterparts could understand. There are some things the healthy will never understand until/unless they also become chronically ill. We certainly don't wish that on them. There are, however, other things that we believe … [Read more...]

3 Comments Filed Under: Coping, Fibro and Marriage, Fibromyalgia, relationships Tagged With: chronic illness

The Importance of Being Vulnerable

Last Updated: March 29, 2015

The Importance of Vulnerability

Vulnerability is difficult. Too often we associate vulnerability with weakness. Even looking at the thesaurus for synonyms that's what we find, weakness, exposed, sitting duck, naked, defenseless. But, what we don't realize is that it's the avoiding vulnerability that really makes us weak. … [Read more...]

8 Comments Filed Under: Close to My Heart, Fibro and Marriage, inspiration Tagged With: communication, sunday inspiration

When Caregiving Roles are Reversed

Last Updated: March 15, 2015

This week my inspiration comes from my husband. Monday morning I woke up to find out that my husband had been awake and sick all night. Really SICK! He was fairly sure (and so was I once he told me) that it was his gallbladder. We headed to the doctor and he sent us to the ER. By Monday afternoon … [Read more...]

4 Comments Filed Under: Coping, Extra Spoons, Fibro and Marriage, My Life, relationships

How you can help someone who has Chronic Pain and Fatigue

Last Updated: January 12, 2015

How you can help someone who is struggling with chronic pain and fatigue

If you have a spouse or loved one living with chronic pain or chronic fatigue, you may feel useless at times because you can't ease their pain, you can't make them physically feel better. Often you want to do something or at least offer advice just in hopes that it might help them feel better. … [Read more...]

2 Comments Filed Under: Extra Spoons, Fibro and Marriage, friendship, relationships, Tips and Tricks Tagged With: acceptance, asking for help, chronic fatigue, chronic pain, family, support

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About Julie

Spoonie. Fibro Warrior. E-health advocate.

Julie Ryan was diagnosed with fibromyalgia in 2010 and endometriosis in 2012. She's lived with chronic migraine most of her life. In 2019 she was diagnosed with inter-cranial hypertension.

Julie has a degree in Psychology, and works as a freelance writer and marketer. Freelance work allows her to work when she can and not be tied to a desk or a schedule. Julie believes in living an inspired life despite chronic illness.

"I have chronic illness, it doesn't have me."

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Blog title inspired by The Spoon Theory, by Christine Miserandino, an excellent explanation of what it's like to live with invisible illness. Read More…

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I am not a doctor. I do not claim to be a doctor. I do not play a doctor on TV or the internet. I simply share my experiences and what has worked for me. We are all different and before you try any new treatment, exercise, supplement, etc you should talk with your doctor (the real one, not the one on TV).

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