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Living With Chronic Pain in Denmark

Last Updated: May 13, 2019

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Life in Denmark as a Chronic Pain Patient

by Erik Hamre

As chronic patients, we see sides of society that others don’t. We get to become intimate with the quirks of the healthcare system, we learn to make money stretch as far as it has to. Sometimes, maybe often, we get frustrated with red tape and less than understanding doctors, neighbors and friends. We’re left to wonder: Is this the best our society has to offer? They say the grass is always greener on the other side, but does that really hold up?

I’m a danish citizen living in Denmark and in this guest post, I’d like to share with you what life as a chronic pain patient is like here. You tell me then, if the grass is actually greener or if you have it pretty good already.

Life as a chronic pain patient in Denmark

Universal Basic Income (UBI) is essential

Some of my American friends are really excited about a Democratic presidential candidate from California, Mr. Andrew Yang. He has made waves by his desire to implement Universal Basic Income (UBI). Socialist? Crazy? Best idea ever? I tell my American friends that we already have a UBI of sorts in Denmark. Let me explain.

These last three years, I’ve been receiving $1,500/month in economic assistance from the government. A net sum aptly named “kontanthjælp,” which literally translates to “cash help.” This “cash help” is available to all Danes who, for whatever reason, do not have a means of providing for themselves. There are strings attached though, courses to attend, unpaid work one must do, and the like. That said, people who are sick are generally exempt.

The Danish Constitution has a paragraph declaring that the state has a responsibility to provide for those unable to provide for themselves. This paragraph has held many different meanings throughout the years, from poorhouses to the current installment. The current “kontanthjælp” is a guaranteed sum of money (with contractual obligations) to be paid every month. It’s a literal lifesaver.

For those gainfully employed in Denmark, a better option than kontanthjælp is government-subsidized unemployment insurance. You pay around $150 every month towards premiums, and in return, you get insured for up to 2 years of unemployment (or sick leave). Payments during this time are up to $3,000 a month. This part-private, part-public system of unemployment is rather unique and has allowed for a very flexible job market. No one has to fear losing their home if they lose their job—at least not for 2 years.

Through my struggle with illness and chronic pain, I consider myself lucky to live in a country where I can always count on this monthly payment. I cannot imagine the horror of having to deal with a debilitating chronic illness without this safeguard.

When the healthcare system passes the buck

Danish healthcare is a “socialized” system, where everyone pays into the system through taxes and treatment is provided free of cost. Everyone is guaranteed treatment at the same hospitals, regardless of their economic situation. While it’s absolutely a great thing, there’s always a flip side to the same coin.

On that other side, the system creates bureaucracy and confusion with long waits to see specialists.

For example, when I began having pain in my neck and back, I was simultaneously sent to a neurological and rheumatology department. These two departments were at two different hospitals, and each appointment came with more than a month long wait. After the first appointment, I was rescheduled for tests like an MR scan, which also had over a month-long wait time. When the results were in—yep, you guessed it—one more to wait for the actual doctor.

It’s exhausting!

Simple introductory diagnostics may take several months while doctors at one hospital wait for results from another. This is probably my biggest complaint as a chronic pain patient in Denmark. The health care system is just not set up to handle people with complex illness. If you have something clearly defined, such as cancer, the system is quick and efficient. If you have something complicated, well, be prepared for months and years of frustration.

Losing identity and respect in a working culture

If I know one thing about Americans, it’s that you work a lot, right? Most Danes turn pale when they hear how little vacation time you Americans have. We’re all about work-life balance over here–emphasis on work.

Denmark is a country which places a great deal of importance on work. While we’re not at the level of the German or Japanese, we do value work very highly. Work carries its own reward here. Some claim it’s because of that mythical “protestant work ethic.” Maybe it’s a remnant of “early to bed, early to rise” farmer culture. Until recently, we used to be a primarily agricultural country.

Work is the center of Danish life. Socializing as an adult is frequently done through work, and people generally place a great deal of identity in their job description.

This also means that you feel quite left out without a job here. This isn’t the Mediterranean or even France, where you find people lounging about casually at all times. No, you get up, go to work, and socialize on the weekends. Denmark doesn’t have strong local communities either, no churches with large congregations. You join a social club according to your hobbies and interests here. Danish socializing is very activity based, which is of course a problem when pain and injury holds you back.

What’s it like where you live?

What's being a chronic pain patient like where you live? Do think it would be better if you lived in a different country? Share on X

I hope you enjoyed reading my experience of living with chronic pain in Denmark. I’m often jealous of Americans and your elite health care system, but on the other hand, I couldn’t live with as much uncertainty as some Americans do. What do you think? Do you think you have it better or worse as a chronic pain patient?

Erik Hamre on what it's like to be a chronic pain patient in DenmarkAbout the author:

Eric is a danish writer and editor with a chronic pain condition. He has written for several danish newspapers and is currently contributing to a danish magazine, Sove.nu, on how to sleep better with chronic pain.

 

 

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About Julie

Spoonie. Fibro Warrior. E-health advocate.

Julie Ryan was diagnosed with fibromyalgia in 2010 and endometriosis in 2012. She's lived with chronic migraine most of her life. In 2019 she was diagnosed with inter-cranial hypertension.

Julie has a degree in Psychology, and works as a freelance writer and marketer. Freelance work allows her to work when she can and not be tied to a desk or a schedule. Julie believes in living an inspired life despite chronic illness.

"I have chronic illness, it doesn't have me."

More about Julie

Blog title inspired by The Spoon Theory, by Christine Miserandino, an excellent explanation of what it's like to live with invisible illness.

Comments

  1. Jessika says

    January 4, 2021 at 9:56 pm

    Having chronic issues is about the same anywhere honestly, it sounds like. Yes its easier to hop around different places in the states, but people like you who rely on payments to survive would probably be out on the street or dead since the US doesn’t give a rats butt and will give you not even enough to survive on your own without going through a thousand hoops. With the high insurance costs, it still can be a long wait for appointments and your insurance can deny you for anything you genuinely need.
    Between the two, having to wait but having a health system that can still support you, versus having to wait a little less but one emergency from being in extreme debt, the grass is greener on your side.

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  2. Gloria Van Nostrand says

    May 13, 2019 at 6:05 pm

    So blessed to live in a great place, the United States If America.
    Socialized medicine is certainly not the answer. Very long waits for needed diagnostic tests and treatments is unacceptable.
    Just listened to a Canadian who told of the horribly long waits patients have to endure. Many Canadians cross the border to get their needed tests, surgeries, and treatments here in the USA.

    We have the best care here in our country. That’s why people come from all over the WORLD to get their treatment here. All over the WORLD…

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  3. Jessica Singer says

    May 13, 2019 at 2:39 pm

    There are definitely pros and cons to each person’s individual experience of what it is like to live with chronic pain, even within your own country.
    If I wasn’t a married woman when I had to leave work due to chronic pain, I would be in big trouble.
    The only things that save me are the good health insurance plan my husband has through his job, as well as the fact that we have his full time income. There needs to be some change for people who are suffering and can’t work. I wish you luck as you continue on your own pain journey. Thank you for sharing your story.

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About Julie

Spoonie. Fibro Warrior. E-health advocate.

Julie Ryan was diagnosed with fibromyalgia in 2010 and endometriosis in 2012. She's lived with chronic migraine most of her life. In 2019 she was diagnosed with inter-cranial hypertension.

Julie has a degree in Psychology, and works as a freelance writer and marketer. Freelance work allows her to work when she can and not be tied to a desk or a schedule. Julie believes in living an inspired life despite chronic illness.

"I have chronic illness, it doesn't have me."

More about Julie

Blog title inspired by The Spoon Theory, by Christine Miserandino, an excellent explanation of what it's like to live with invisible illness. Read More…

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I am not a doctor. I do not claim to be a doctor. I do not play a doctor on TV or the internet. I simply share my experiences and what has worked for me. We are all different and before you try any new treatment, exercise, supplement, etc you should talk with your doctor (the real one, not the one on TV).

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