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7 things you need to let go of to feel better

Last Updated: January 18, 2016

7 things to let go of to feel better

7 Things You Need to Let Go Of, To Feel Better   Sometimes we hold on so tightly to things that we don't need. I think that when we live with chronic illness we hold on even tighter. Illness strips so much away from us that we can feel it necessary to hold onto anything that's left, … [Read more...]

2 Comments Filed Under: Coping, inspiration, relationships Tagged With: decreasing pain, decreasing stress, depression

Let’s STOP Pretending

Last Updated: June 7, 2015

People have rough times and everybody's pretending it's not true, and we need to break that veneer. It's time to stop pretending that everything is OK when it's not.

Sometimes I worry that people will read my blog and see the positivity I try to share, and the fact that I've said I feel I've recovered from Fibromyalgia and think that that means I'm 100% hunky-dory and never have a bad day. But, that's not the truth. I still have bad days and I don't try to … [Read more...]

4 Comments Filed Under: Coping, Extra Spoons, inspiration Tagged With: decreasing pain, decreasing stress, sunday inspiration

Surviving Fibromyalgia: How I #defypain

Last Updated: May 12, 2015

Today is Fibromyalgia Awareness Day (May 12, in case you are coming to this post later), and I thought it was an appropriate day to share a post on how I #defypain and how I'm Surviving Fibromyalgia. Fibromyalgia is characterized by widespread chronic pain, and while I may look healthy, and … [Read more...]

1 Comment Filed Under: Fibromyalgia, inspiration Tagged With: acceptance, chronic illness, chronic pain, decreasing pain, decreasing stress

Sunday Inspiration: Turn Into the Skid

Last Updated: April 26, 2015

When you feel your car go into a skid, should you: a) try to hold the wheel as steady as possibleb) steer into the skid c) step on the brake d) take your foot off the gas e) floor it f) steer in the direction you want the car to go. I can hear you now asking "Julie, WTH does this have to do … [Read more...]

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Within My Control: 5 Lessons in Pain Management

Last Updated: April 20, 2015

5 keys to self-managing chronic pain

Within My Control:5 Lessons in Pain Management Guest Post by Mandy Mercuri from Take Hold of Pain Six years ago I attended a 3 week intensive hospital-based pain management clinic. It changed my life! During this course, I learned that pain is just a sensation within my body. Oftentimes the … [Read more...]

5 Comments Filed Under: Coping, Tips and Tricks, Treatment Tagged With: acceptance, chronic pain, decreasing pain, decreasing stress, meditation, mindfulness therapy, pacing, stress

The Fay Farm CBD Oil Products

Last Updated: March 13, 2015

Last month I shared my new favorite product with you - The Fay Farm's CBD Warming Oil. This oil and their CBD lotion are both amazing products and they have really helped me reduce the pain in my shoulders (and other areas). Today I want to tell you more about The Fay Farm. The Fay Farm is a … [Read more...]

7 Comments Filed Under: Coping, Treatment Tagged With: alternative therapies, cbd oil, decreasing pain, decreasing stress, product review

The 3 Ms of Coping with Chronic Pain and Fatigue

Last Updated: February 9, 2015

3 Ms of coping with chronic pain and fatigue

Coping with chronic fatigue can be difficult on the best of days.  However much we struggle, we need to focus on maintaining a three important things in our life. I call these the three M's of Coping. Coping with chronic pain requires that you maintain relationships When you live with chronic … [Read more...]

3 Comments Filed Under: Coping, Extra Spoons, Fibromyalgia, Tips and Tricks Tagged With: chronic fatigue, chronic pain, decreasing pain, decreasing stress

Can music reduce pain?

Last Updated: January 9, 2015

Can music reduce pain and improve movement in fibromyalgia?

Can Music Reduce Pain? There are many types of music therapy available, and different research suggesting that types of music can help calm you, reduce stress, and even, yes, even reduce pain. A study conducted by Garza-Villarreal and colleagues in the Feb, 2013, Frontiers of Psychology examined … [Read more...]

2 Comments Filed Under: Fibromyalgia, Medical Studies Tagged With: decreasing pain, decreasing stress, music, stress

Sunday Inspiration: Stop Ruminating

Last Updated: October 5, 2014

Rumination is a state that many of us find ourselves in when we are sick. What is rumination? Ruminating a psychological state of focusing on our distress, on the negatives of our situation. Recently one of my favorite authors and bloggers, Toni Bernhard posted a great article about this and about … [Read more...]

3 Comments Filed Under: Coping, inspiration, relationships Tagged With: decreasing stress, feeling better, sunday inspiration

Learn to Control Your Pain and Flares

Last Updated: August 17, 2014

At this point anyone with a chronic illness knows that stress increases their flares (or likelihood of a flare). But, are you creating your own flares, and the stress that creates them? You could be controlling both the stress and the flares. I know it's hard to imagine that we actually have any … [Read more...]

2 Comments Filed Under: Coping, Extra Spoons, Symptoms Tagged With: decreasing pain, decreasing stress, sunday inspiration

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About Julie

Spoonie. Fibro Warrior. E-health advocate.

Julie Ryan was diagnosed with fibromyalgia in 2010 and endometriosis in 2012. She's lived with chronic migraine most of her life. In 2019 she was diagnosed with inter-cranial hypertension.

Julie has a degree in Psychology, and works as a freelance writer and marketer. Freelance work allows her to work when she can and not be tied to a desk or a schedule. Julie believes in living an inspired life despite chronic illness.

"I have chronic illness, it doesn't have me."

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Blog title inspired by The Spoon Theory, by Christine Miserandino, an excellent explanation of what it's like to live with invisible illness. Read More…

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I am not a doctor. I do not claim to be a doctor. I do not play a doctor on TV or the internet. I simply share my experiences and what has worked for me. We are all different and before you try any new treatment, exercise, supplement, etc you should talk with your doctor (the real one, not the one on TV).

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