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The Importance of Loving Yourself Despite Chronic Illness

Last Updated: May 16, 2016

Love yourself first

*This article was originally posted on Prohealth When you live with chronic illness your self-esteem takes a beating. You are no longer able to do many of the things you used to do, you are forced to rely on others for help with often simple things, you may no longer be able to work, and you … [Read more...]

3 Comments Filed Under: Coping, Extra Spoons, inspiration, relationships Tagged With: acceptance, self-compassion

How can you be positive when you live with chronic pain?

Last Updated: February 29, 2016

How can you be positive when you live with chronic pain?

This post was originally published on Prohealth.com Recently I saw a meme on Facebook asking the question: "How can you be positive when you live with chronic pain?" There was a time when I would have totally agreed with that sentiment, but no more. These days I know that whether I feel positive … [Read more...]

4 Comments Filed Under: Coping, inspiration Tagged With: acceptance, positivity

10 Ways to be Happier Despite Chronic Illness

Last Updated: October 5, 2015

10 ways to be happier despite chronic pain

10 Ways to be Happy Despite Chronic Illness Stress creates anxiety, anxiety increases pain, pain increases stress. Stress, anxiety, and pain decrease happiness. It’s the circle we live in when we live with chronic illness, but it doesn’t have to be. It’s so easy for me to get caught in that … [Read more...]

3 Comments Filed Under: Coping, Extra Spoons, inspiration Tagged With: acceptance, chronic pain, happiness, self-compassion

When Chronic Pain Causes Shame, Practice Self-Compassion

Last Updated: September 14, 2015

When chronic pain causes shame, I practice self compassion

I recently ran across the blog So Angie Writes and I was deeply touched by her writings. When she offered to write a guest post I jumped at the chance. Angie shares some important words of wisdom on practicing self-compassion when chronic pain causes shame. ---     My illnesses … [Read more...]

4 Comments Filed Under: Coping, Fibromyalgia Tagged With: acceptance, self-compassion

10 beliefs to help you overcome negativity

Last Updated: July 27, 2015

10 beliefs to help you overcome negative thoughts

Negativity often overwhelms me. I see it everywhere, I hear it everywhere. I try to avoid it as much as possible. I don't watch or listen to talking heads or news programs, I avoid people that are stuck in the negative rut. But, sometimes it can't be avoided. Sometimes, the place I hear the most … [Read more...]

1 Comment Filed Under: inspiration Tagged With: acceptance, positivity, self-compassion

4 things we must set aside so that we can move forward

Last Updated: May 25, 2015

When I was diagnosed with fibromyalgia and living with constant uncontrollable pain, I got stuck. It felt impossible to move forward with my life. I put everything on hold because all I could do was focus on the pain. Looking back I realize that there were things keeping me stuck, but it wasn't the … [Read more...]

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The Stigma of Mental Illness – #StoptheStigma

Last Updated: May 22, 2015

The Stigma of Mental Illness Last fall (2014) I took Experimental Psychology and one of the projects we worked on was related to mental illness stigma. I've wanted to share a part of the paper I wrote for that and thought that since May is Mental Illness Awareness Month now would be ideal. Before … [Read more...]

3 Comments Filed Under: Close to My Heart, Medical Studies Tagged With: acceptance, anxiety, depression, mental health, personality

Surviving Fibromyalgia: How I #defypain

Last Updated: May 12, 2015

Today is Fibromyalgia Awareness Day (May 12, in case you are coming to this post later), and I thought it was an appropriate day to share a post on how I #defypain and how I'm Surviving Fibromyalgia. Fibromyalgia is characterized by widespread chronic pain, and while I may look healthy, and … [Read more...]

1 Comment Filed Under: Fibromyalgia, inspiration Tagged With: acceptance, chronic illness, chronic pain, decreasing pain, decreasing stress

Within My Control: 5 Lessons in Pain Management

Last Updated: April 20, 2015

5 keys to self-managing chronic pain

Within My Control:5 Lessons in Pain Management Guest Post by Mandy Mercuri from Take Hold of Pain Six years ago I attended a 3 week intensive hospital-based pain management clinic. It changed my life! During this course, I learned that pain is just a sensation within my body. Oftentimes the … [Read more...]

5 Comments Filed Under: Coping, Tips and Tricks, Treatment Tagged With: acceptance, chronic pain, decreasing pain, decreasing stress, meditation, mindfulness therapy, pacing, stress

5 Tips for Staying Positive Despite Chronic Illness

Last Updated: April 6, 2015

5 tips for staying positive despite chronic illness

5 Tips for Staying Positive Despite Chronic Illness When you live with chronic illness, life can be rough and it can be very difficult to remain positive. The little things often drag us down, we focus inward, and we forget to notice the small joys in life, while the small (and large) negatives … [Read more...]

4 Comments Filed Under: Coping, inspiration Tagged With: acceptance, chronic illness, feeling better, happiness, positivity

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About Julie

Spoonie. Fibro Warrior. E-health advocate.

Julie Ryan was diagnosed with fibromyalgia in 2010 and endometriosis in 2012. She's lived with chronic migraine most of her life. In 2019 she was diagnosed with inter-cranial hypertension.

Julie has a degree in Psychology, and works as a freelance writer and marketer. Freelance work allows her to work when she can and not be tied to a desk or a schedule. Julie believes in living an inspired life despite chronic illness.

"I have chronic illness, it doesn't have me."

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Blog title inspired by The Spoon Theory, by Christine Miserandino, an excellent explanation of what it's like to live with invisible illness. Read More…

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I am not a doctor. I do not claim to be a doctor. I do not play a doctor on TV or the internet. I simply share my experiences and what has worked for me. We are all different and before you try any new treatment, exercise, supplement, etc you should talk with your doctor (the real one, not the one on TV).

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