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You are here: Home / Conditions / Fibromyalgia / Chronic Pain: It’s all in Your Head (but not the way you think)

Chronic Pain: It’s all in Your Head (but not the way you think)

Last Updated: June 20, 2014

Welcome! It looks like you might be new here, so I wanted to take a moment to tell you a little about me and my blog. My name is Julie Ryan and I live with Fibromyalgia. I've chosen to live positively, to fight back with diet and lifestyle changes and it's made a huge difference for me. The difference between living all my days in bed, and actually LIVING. I hope you'll keep reading and subscribe to my Newsletter to make sure you don't miss a post. Thanks for visiting!

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paininthebrainI read this article “Chronic Pain May Be All In the Brain” recently and couldn’t help but think “Well, DUH!” I think anyone with Fibromyalgia knows by now that the pain we have does not come from the site of the pain itself. My arm hurts doesn’t mean there’s something wrong with my arm. I thought doctors understood this by now. I thought it had been generally accepted that the chronic pain of Fibromyalgia was caused by an issue where the pain processors in the brain weren’t working correctly. Our on-board pain sensor chips have some wires crossed, there’s a short. Something taps that chip or a connected wire and instantly *ZING* we hurt. Sometimes we hurt just for a moment, sometimes that wire has a short in it and it stays a  little crooked and we continue to hurt for hours, or days.

Because evidence now suggests that a lot of pain comes from the brain and spinal cord and is more about a difference in how individuals sense pain.

Are there really still doctors that don’t get this? Evidently, there are. Then again there are still many doctors who don’t believe Fibromyalgia even exists. Their version of “it’s all in your head” is simply that it’s a psychological issue, we just need to get over. Go see a shrink and learn to relax more. Ignore it and it’ll go away. That’s now how it works!

There’s so much about the human body that we still don’t understand, and so much that so many refuse to understand because it’s just easier to accept old ways of thinking as fact.

This:

“The notion that I am trying to advance is that we all have a different volume control setting with respect to how pain sensitive we are and that’s largely set in the brain,” Professor Clauw told Rheumatology Update.

Exactly! This is why one person with Fibromyalgia may hurt worse than another. This is why we each experience pain differently. Somewhere there’s a volume control, and someone lost the freakin’ knob! So, now that volume control is stuck on what ever level it was left on when the knob fell off. The worst part is that at this point doctors aren’t even sure where the knob went in the first place, so we can’t even take a pair of pliers and adjust the volume. (My apologies to anyone who’s not old enough to understand that reference).

And then there’s this:

However one of the problems with increased sub-speciality care is a lot of doctors are just not asking enough questions.

“If someone goes in with knee pain they’ll just look at that person’s knee and won’t actually do a history and ask whether they are having pain in other parts of their body,” he said.

For those who haven’t been diagnosed this is why it takes so long. For those who have been diagnosed we end up with a whole new problem of having no idea whether that new pain is “just Fibro” or if it’s something we need to be concerned about and see a specialist for. If we are seeing someone for our Fibromyalgia, it’s likely that they will just pass it off as “just Fibromyalgia” and look no deeper, too often leaving us suffering from other issues that go undiagnosed.

[Tweet “Just because we have #Fibromyalgia, doesn’t mean every pain we have is “Just #Fibro””]

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  • First objective measure of pain discovered in brain scan patterns
  • Discovery could eventually help diagnose and treat chronic pain

2 Comments Filed Under: Fibromyalgia, Medical Studies, Treatment Tagged With: acceptance, chronic pain, doctors

About Julie

Spoonie. Fibro Warrior. E-health advocate.

Julie Ryan was diagnosed with fibromyalgia in 2010 and endometriosis in 2012. She's lived with chronic migraine most of her life. In 2019 she was diagnosed with inter-cranial hypertension.

Julie has a degree in Psychology, and works as a freelance writer and marketer. Freelance work allows her to work when she can and not be tied to a desk or a schedule. Julie believes in living an inspired life despite chronic illness.

"I have chronic illness, it doesn't have me."

More about Julie

Blog title inspired by The Spoon Theory, by Christine Miserandino, an excellent explanation of what it's like to live with invisible illness.

Comments

  1. Tracy says

    June 22, 2014 at 1:31 pm

    Love your blog! I found it on twitter searching for #fibromyalgia. My blog is more general, about chronic pain. I will look forward to your next post!

    Reply
    • Julie says

      June 22, 2014 at 1:50 pm

      Glad you found your way here. I’ll check out your blog and look forward to keeping in touch.

      Reply

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About Julie

Spoonie. Fibro Warrior. E-health advocate.

Julie Ryan was diagnosed with fibromyalgia in 2010 and endometriosis in 2012. She's lived with chronic migraine most of her life. In 2019 she was diagnosed with inter-cranial hypertension.

Julie has a degree in Psychology, and works as a freelance writer and marketer. Freelance work allows her to work when she can and not be tied to a desk or a schedule. Julie believes in living an inspired life despite chronic illness.

"I have chronic illness, it doesn't have me."

More about Julie

Blog title inspired by The Spoon Theory, by Christine Miserandino, an excellent explanation of what it's like to live with invisible illness. Read More…

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